Sunday, September 29, 2013

Sometimes... It's Okay to Say "NO"

Sometimes... it's okay to say "no".

Rejection can be the hardest thing to deal with.. whether it's getting rejected or rejecting someone, because the word "no" can be super hard to say or hear.

For me, it's always been hard to say "no" to people.  Maybe it's because I know rejection is hard to take in sometimes: therefore, just rejecting anyone has always been hard to do.  But I guess being older now... I've learned that it's okay to say "no".  Saying "no" does not mean you're being mean.  It just means that you're standing up for yourself and what you believe is right.

When a person always says "yes", people start catching up to that, and because they know your weakness, they'd start targeting and taking advantage of it.  I don't quite remember when I started saying "no", but all I have to say is that, it's definitely made things better for me =)....No longer do I have to look back at some situations and wish that I stood up for myself, and no longer do I have to get into unnecessary problems. =)

"No" is hard to say, but... sometimes saying "no" is what allows other people and even yourself to understand that you can't and won't be easily taken advantage of.  So in times of feeling peer pressured or simply pressured during situations, just remember that there's one thing you do possess, and it is the right to reject and defend yourself and what you believe in.

xxxx, 
Wing 

Saturday, September 14, 2013

LookBook: HOT PINK DELIGHT

09.14.2013
HOT PINK DELIGHT

As many of us know, A-line skirts have been beyond popular!  Many people are wearing them... and I don't know what I was thinking about not trying on this trend until now!  I'll most likely write up another entry regarding my love for A-line skirts, but for now... all I have to say is that I'm absolutely in love with the trend, and I'm practically hooked! LOL =)  



I had so much fun with today's outfit.  To me, Summer is all about simplicity!  It's the season where we honestly don't need to layer a lot of pieces on, and just let the simplicity of our basics shine! =)  Along with my black A-line skirt, I wore a shoulder cut-out blue and grey top that is crazily comfortable! 



As for accessorize, I wore a cute silver heart pendant necklace from Pac Sun, and finished off my look with my new  pair of striking hot pink heels from Chromatic Gallerie! =) 



Omgoodness... aren't the pink flowers beautiful?? (FYI: They match my shoes!) 

Photography By: LWK PHOTOGRAPHY

HEART NECKLACE: PAC SUN
HOT PINK HEELS: CHROMATIC GALLERIE 
TOP: BORA FASHIONS
A-LINE SKIRT: ROSEBOWL FLEA MARKET

My all-time favorites for the Summer have always been short shorts, short skirts, or short dresses!  Summer's coming to an end in about a week, which is crazy, but I'm so excited to transition my favorites pieces for the cooler seasons!  =)  I hope you guys are having a wonderful weekend, and I will talk to you guys real soon! =) 

xxxx, 
Wing 

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Wednesday, September 11, 2013

Live the Most Out of Each & Every Moment of My Life

My life in a nutshell:










Life has been... surprisingly not a roller coaster.  As you can see, I've presented myself as a total fatty who takes pictures of herself occasionally, and enjoys capturing the precious views that life surprises us with.  haha I guess that's about right.. I love eating, I enjoy taking selfies once in a while, and I love nature! =)  

But yah, the pictures above are just some of many pictures I've taken in the previous month and a half!  A lot has gone on, and now life is finally settled in a bit... which I'm totally glad about! =) Sometimes I look up at the sky, and can't help but remember how crazily small I am in this enormous universe.  I think the picture above is a perfect example of what causes me to feel that way.  I'm not sure what holds for me tomorrow, but I'll try to live the most out of each and every moment of my life. =) 

xxxx, 
Wing 
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